Pattern #4

The following pattern is interesting.

____, isn't it?

"Isn't it" is called a 'tag question', and when you add it to the end of a sentence, it makes it difficult to disagree with, doesn't it? it is simple to use these patterns in our everyday lives, isn't it? It's good to go into trance, isn't it? It's enjoyable to learn something new, isn't it? It's useful to practice these patterns, isn't it?

so that's the pattern!!

ir.tejinder singh

Hypnotic Language Pattern 3

Hi Good Folks,

Here is another pattern that is useful to master.

[fact] and [fact] and [fact] and ____.

If I state three things that are true, a person is likely to accept the fourth thing as true. You're sitting here, and you're listening to me, and you're breathing in and out, and you're starting to relax. You're reading this blog, and you're reading the language pattern, and you're looking at the words and you're continuing to learn. If there are too many ands, just link the phrases together. You're here today, with an intent, looking at me as you begin to wonder about what you're going to learn.

That's the pattern!


Ir. Tejinder

Hypnotic Language Pattern

Hi Fellow Seekers,

Hypnotic language patterns are a powerful tool for persuasion.

The pattern for this time is :

'____ because ...'

People are much more likely to do things when you say 'because', because they like to have reasons for things. You can learn anything effortlessly and easily, because you have an unconscious mind. You can start to make those changes, because you've waited for long enough. You can enjoy making the changes that you desire, because you can.

Hypnotic Language Pattern

Hi Fellow Learners,

Even since I officially forayed into the NLP scene back in 2007, I have been fascinated by the potential of language patterns. When we speak of language patterns, Milton Model comes to mind. I believe that mastery of hypnotic language patterns will hold us in good stead, both for ourselves and for our clients.

Today I will share a simple hypnotic language pattern:

...said "____".

I'm just reporting what my instructor said, so there's nothing for your conscious mind to resist. My friend Joe said to me, "Enjoy all the moments of your life". And my friend Caroline said "It's easy for you to drop into a nice deep trance". One of my sifus once said, "Learn to use hypnotic language", so I did!

That's the pattern!

How do I use it and how do I get good at hypnotic language patterns?

a) First, read the pattern description and examples aloud to get used to this pattern.

b) You can 'mark out' the phrases indicated with italics to send messages to someone's unconscious mind.

c) Then, choose simple commands (E.g. go into a trance) to 'fill in the blanks' for this pattern. Start reading the pattern aloud, even if you don't know what you're going to say. Your unconscious will often fill in the blanks!

d) Print the pattern out as a reminder, then keep it by the phone or carry it in your pocket or paste it on the refrigerator or on your bathroom mirror. You can use this pattern in your language to deliver messages to a person's unconscious mind.

e) To increase your rate of learning, write out 25, or 50 or even 100 examples using this pattern to deliver a hypnotic message.

Till next time, my teacher once said, "Practice makes perfect, so learn language patterns...now"

Time flies so fast

Sometimes i wonder where do people get the time to maintain, write, publish, and update blogs. I surely have a lack of spare time to maintain this blog. Just look at the last entry, it was made almost two years ago. A lot has happened since then. That is the subject of another blog post. I promise to do it soon.

Carpe Diem

Still Journeying On

wow! what a few months it has been. there were peaks and troughs, high and lows, ups and downs.
i took it all in stride.

when i started this blog late in 2007, i thought that i would be dilligent in updating it, however in practice it was not the case. life has kept me busy and i am several books behind and have many tv shows and movies on my To-watch list.

here's hoping that the second quarter of 2008 and beyond will see a changed me, as far as blogging goes, that is.

stay well

The Six Questions

Here are the six questions that one needs to ask to formulate a WFO (Well Formed Outcome):-

1) Positive - What do you want?

2) Sensory Specific - How will I recognize when you have this? How will you know when you have this?

3) Contextualized - Where and when do you want to have this resource? Where and when do you not want this resource?

4) Self Achievable

It is very important that the outcome must be within their own realm of influence i.e. is something over which the person has control.

What resources do you need to be able to achieve this?
What do you need to do to achieve this?
Is this something which you, yourself, can achieve? Or does it require that OTHER people behave in a certain way?

5) Ecological

The advantages and the disadvantages. There are always disadvantages in making a change - being alert to these keeps the person `at cause' by making it their choice.

What are the advantages of making this change?
What are the disadvantages of making this change?
What will achieving this lose you? Become?

6)Worthwhile

The motivation question: which of your values will be fulfilled by achieving this outcome?
What's important to you about getting this?
What will this outcome help you avoid feeling?
What is the benefit of this outcome?

The NLP method of refining goals or objectives using the WFO's process produces a more carefully refined and unambiguous objective. (The method is more accurately referred to as the Well-Formedness Conditions for an Outcome.) This looks similar to the popular business tool called SMART and I personally use a combination of both when setting my outcomes or goals.